What happened to you today :)

[kilofey]

I hate stuff like that Kilo, even knowing someone is near me when it's dark outside freaks me out.
Don't worry though I'm sure you'll be totally fine did the police come and do anything?

pffft! no! i knew they wouldnt come... i just wanted it on file saying i have a loaded gun for defense purposes... in case i end up needing to use it, i wanted an audio saying i have one, where it is, and that it is loaded and that its only if i need it... ya kno, covering my bases. ive been so stressed out tho. im already packing... im leaving as soon as i can. OH and get this: so the other night i got 4 calls at ridiculous hours in the morning... they were all blocked calls. when i answered, no one was there. i thought it was my friend's boyfriend just needing someone to talk to but didnt have the guts after he dialed (hes been known to do this... its hard for him to talk about whats bothering him) anyway, so i asked him about it and he has no idea!!!!! that totally adds to the stress... like, what if the person like found me online and looked up my address and phone number or something! omg... i know its definately no one i know because i really only talk to my best friend, her boyfriend and this guy im talking to who is also a friend of my sister... and hes a total sweet heart, nothing creepy... so... AHH!

got more calls last night... i really dont know whats going on but im sooo scared now

[Tigerlilly]

Don't be scared, it'll be totally fine, just make sure you have all your windows and doors locked at night.
I was getting phone calls a while back... 46 missed calls in about 16 min's while I had a shower.
If I didn't say anything when I picked it up.. they would breathe REALLY loud then put it down after a while. If I said hello it'd go silent and I'd be the one who put it down.
Freaky.
If you're really worried phone the police & make them trace the calls.

[Lil' Swimz$]

That sounds awful! Did you send anyone your address? Maybe some Spyware saw it?

[CarmenH]

You don't think it could be your ex, do you?

[Tigerlilly]

Good thinking.. could it be?
Though she said she saw a man looking in her window if it was her ex I'm sure she'd know that

[CarmenH]

Creepy. Hope it gets sorted out soon...

[kilofey]

i dont think it would be my ex or anyone he knows. though we did have a fall out, we are still pretty good friends. i talk to his new girlfriend all the time... shes actually a pretty cool chick... even convinced him (an athiest) to go to church lol anyway, though we do have an odd friendship, being ex's and all, i dont think he would be the one.

i did call the police, no one ever came out, then i told someone at my union hall just to chat it up and complain about stuff and they happened to know someone on city council. the guy with city council got on the local police department's case about it. then he called the deputy that is in charge of stalking and family stuff like domestic violence and such... she called me on her own time (after she was off work for the day) and she contacted an on duty sheriff who came to my house and took a report. she will be following up on it tomorrow when she is in the office..... *sigh* okay... lol sorry for the long story.... gosh before you know it, this will be a citywide thing everyone will be involved. i must admit though, i feel very cared about right now, which does help for some reason

[kilofey]

That sounds awful! Did you send anyone your address? Maybe some Spyware saw it?

how does spyware work and what could happen if i have spy ware?

[Tigerlilly]

It's good that they're doing something about it I hope it all works out good.
Today I packed for holiday nearly 3 months in advance

[kilofey]

It's good that they're doing something about it I hope it all works out good.
Today I packed for holiday nearly 3 months in advance

im packing too! but im not taking a holiday wish i was... i hate moving

[Tigerlilly]

I've only moved once and I don't remember it but I can imagine it's VERY stressful & worrying.
I'm only going on holiday and I'm totally freaking out, I've had to plan everything, my boyfriend doesnt even have a passport yet & he owes me like £450!
Imagine if he dumped me now?
I need to find some waterproof foundation too I know it's stupid.. wanting make up in a pool, but I just can't go out without it, I want to hide & cry.
I just can't find any, water resistant.. easy, but as soon as you touch your face it all flakes off.

[kilofey]

I've only moved once and I don't remember it but I can imagine it's VERY stressful & worrying.
I'm only going on holiday and I'm totally freaking out, I've had to plan everything, my boyfriend doesnt even have a passport yet & he owes me like £450!
Imagine if he dumped me now?
I need to find some waterproof foundation too I know it's stupid.. wanting make up in a pool, but I just can't go out without it, I want to hide & cry.
I just can't find any, water resistant.. easy, but as soon as you touch your face it all flakes off.

i dumped my guy while he still owed me 8 months of rent, utilities, food, and everything else necessary for living in an apartment AND i bought him a car (which i did take back tho)..... suddenly 450 doesnt seem so bad does it im not sure how much 450 is converted to US currency but im sure its less than all that ^^^^ lol..... oh, AND i spent at least 100 dollars on him for birthdays or christmas... i NEVER got a present other than a stupid last minute 10 dollar wall plaque that he bought on christmas eve after finding out that i bought him a 130 dollar hammer he really wanted

[Tigerlilly]

That sucks You really need to get with a nice guy to spoil you.

[kilofey]

i found a good one... but we are staying friends for a while just so we know what we are getting into. neither of us want to make another relationship mistake. anyway, super sweet gentleman, and friend of my sister, so she already knows his character.

[Lil' Swimz$]

That sounds awful! Did you send anyone your address? Maybe some Spyware saw it?

how does spyware work and what could happen if i have spy ware?

I think its when someone can watch whatever your online. They can find out your passwords and go on your e-mails and things. I'd scan your computer.