Zapperses wrote: ↑Sun Mar 05, 2017 1:55 am
My condolences to both of you. I lost my porcupine pine puffer in October. I only had him for three years and am so sad he is gone. It is great to hear I am not the only puffer fanatic.
And my condolences to you as well. I love my Diodon Holocanthus [wife named it Floofie..

]; it has the most outgoing personality of any puffer I have ever had, and I can't imagine losing it/him.
Bleedingheartmommy wrote: ↑Sun Mar 05, 2017 3:03 am
What a perfectly eloquent way to explain puffers and their bonds with their humans.
Thank you.
Bleedingheartmommy wrote: ↑Sun Mar 05, 2017 3:03 am
I too have a bad habit of basing my abilities on my fish living their full life span or longer- all though I know it's silly to believe that I, nor anyone in this world, has that much power or control... but it's easier to blame ourselfs.
I wouldn't say it is a
bad habit, rather in fact, a good if not entirely realistic one.
After all, shouldn't our goal be to give our friends lives as long and happy as it is possible to enable?
Bleedingheartmommy wrote: ↑Sun Mar 05, 2017 3:03 am
I hope you remember that you hurt because of your genuine love, and bc you care you will make sure you give the best life to the next- as I'm sure you did for your dog faced puffer. I hope your heart heals soon from this loss :hug:
Thank you. I honestly was not expecting to find others who felt so strongly for their charges, but it pleases me to have been surprised.
I think that if you feel nothing significant at the passing of a pet, perhaps some thought should be given as to ones decision to take on the responsibility in the first place.
Animals are not ornaments; quite a wide selection of them are intelligent, and as we are discovering, sentient beings capable of complex emotion, a narrative/monologue manner of thinking with the ability to make inferences as to the contents of other creatures minds.
This is especially evident in the puffer fish.
They can be taught to recognize their names for goodness sake, in whatever manner they perceive our voices. I can with all 3 remaining fish, stand on one side of the tank, call the name of a particular puffer, and receive eye contact prior to that specific fish floating right on over. The GSP [Spot] can take a few more tries though. They do not respond 100% of the time, more like 60%...but when they do,
only the fish I have asked for will approach.
In the case of my late Arothron Mappa [named Mappa, RIP], it acted as arbiter of conflict. It would actually
interrupt any conflict and make the participants go elsewhere. Not only that, but during feeding Mappa would eat some cubes and then back off to let its smaller tank mates eat. I have even seen them exhibit something like jealousy/envy; I repeatedly had Mappa give me a good squirt in the back of the head when I would feed my Oscar before, as usually I fed the puffers first. The Diodon becomes upset in a similar manner, as typically I feed it the bloodworm cubes first, and everyone elses pellets last....but if I invert the order it gets bent out of shape and thrashes about biting at me.
I have had them get my attention when water parameters were off or when one of their fellows was sick for example.
Even more, the Diodon especially can
count. My wife feeds 4 bloodworm cubes, and I feed 6. As either of us drop them in one at a time, he will wait until exactly the number each of us feeds has been added before eating any of them. Sometimes we switch it up, and when she gets to 4 he will dash off and begin eating, becoming surprised when two more get added...and when I stop at 4 then walk off, he will darken up and thrash about while biting at the glass: "HEY! HUMAN! Ya messed up! HEY! HEY! Where are the REST?!"
When my Arothron Mappa passed a number of years ago, my Dogface [named Puppy, RIP] took on a very peculiar pattern and shade, clearly moped about, and kept this up for a number of weeks. They used to lay beside each other in a cave. Now that I have lost him as well, his "friend" the Arothron Hispidus [Star] is acting exactly the same way, and they too used to spend a lot of time together, one laying on or beside the other.
If you spend any significant amount of time interacting with your puffers, displaying consistent activities and responses to their actions, quite quickly you will find that your puffer learns this and will begin to do stuff to convey limited amounts information to you and do things which result in the responses they wish.
Those are not the activities of an unthinking creature.
It is for this reason I have mixed feelings about keeping them in captivity, and the more time I spend with them, the less I feel comfortable with the idea, though I think that if you spend enough time with them, and if they have enough to do [mine like TV, though I don't] they may not be troubled so much. Speaking of TV and puffers...I have found that Star likes Stargate SG1, and Puppy liked Farscape. They each would come out and get front and center, head and eyes aimed right at the TV, for as long as "their show" was on, immediately losing interest during commercials or upon the program ending.
I am absolutely 100% serious.
I think there are probably Nobel prizes to be won, when finally some group of cognitive/behavioral scientists spends enough concerted effort on puffer fish. Phys.org has a LOT of recent work relating to much less intelligent species of fish, which they found in all cases to be shockingly more intelligent than ever suspected.
I find it hard to imagine that anyone who takes the time to really interact with their puffers could feel nothing at the loss of a friend like that.
Thank you all, talking about them and seeing that others feel similarly has made me feel a bit better.
Ian